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As mindful as we try to be, there are times when our child’s behavior seems to make no sense to us.  This is no rational pattern or reason nor is there any developmental theory to support what we observe.  However you are looking at only one child.  I have had the pleasure of observing children eat and talking to parents for the past 20 years, in a child care settings and in classes with parents present.  I have made a few unscientific, non-research based observations.
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by Yaffa Maritz August 3, 2010
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by Yaffa Maritz July 21, 2010
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by New York Times Family Column May 26, 2010
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by Margaret April 26, 2010
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by Margaret April 15, 2010
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by Beverly Pressey January 13, 2010
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by New York Times Family Column December 4, 2009
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by New York Times Family Column October 1, 2009
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